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5 ways to keep in touch with your girlies even when life gets tough.
Making sure you don’t drift apart when life happens!
Hi Girlie,
So, I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed with everything lately, and my bestie could totally tell. She just said, “Pack a bag and come stay with me,” and before I knew it, I was 3000 miles away from home, crashing at her place.
There’s something so comforting about just being with someone who gets it, sharing late-night talks about real things and simple meals. That’s just female friendships for you! 🥰
But you know what the problem is, life happens and these precious girlies are lost along the way.
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5 ways to keep your girl-friends close even when life gets tough:
The thing is, we get it girl, life happens. Too many lemons, too many cups to pour in, and nothing left for yourself. You end up drifting apart from your friends.
Before we go down this road, here are a few signs you’re in a healthy friendship.
So, let's rekindle those bonds and keep our squad strong, no matter what life throws our way.
1/ Life Update- Podcasts 🎧
✔️ Keep your friends in the loop. Make it a habit to send a quick voice note every day or week, even if it's just to say "hi" and share a brief update.
✔️ Leave a voice note to compliment your friend, offer support, or simply brighten their day. The key is to make it about them for the moment.
✔️ New crush?Your girls need that tea! 👀
2/ Send Mini Vlogs 📷
✔️ Give your friend a glimpse into your daily life by sharing short video clips of your activities.
✔️ Shoot fun GRWM for your besties and chat about whatever’s on your mind while you do.
✔️ Participate in fun challenges and share your attempts, no matter how ridiculous, in video form.
3/ Food Delivery Date 🍪
✔️ Plan a themed dinner night, like Italian, Mexican, or comfort food.
✔️ If you're both comfortable, try cooking the same dish at the same time and sharing the experience over video chat.
✔️ Order dessert and have a virtual dessert party with your friend.
4/ Send Playlists to each other 🎶
✔️ Create Spotify playlists of songs that remind you of your friendship or special memories.
✔️ Do a jam sesh with your girlfriends.
✔️ Take turns adding songs to the playlist and chat about what memories your choices bring up.
5/ Plan Things Together 🌴
✔️ If you’re long distance friends, have things to look forward to.
✔️ Together, create a list of things you want to do together with your friends.
BONUS: Surprise Each Other
✔️ If possible, plan a surprise visit to see your friend.
✔️ Send care packages filled with your friend's favorite things.
✔️ Send your friend flowers, a handwritten letter, or a small gift to show your appreciation.
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Big sis advice comin’ in hot 🥵
We know life can get hectic, but it's important to not let your friendships fade. Your girl gang is your support system, your cheerleaders, and your confidantes.
Prioritize quality time, even if it's just a quick chat or a virtual hangout. Remember, it's not about how often you see each other, but the quality of the time you spend together and the bonds you create.
So, grab your besties, make plans, and create unforgettable memories together!
Xo,
The Girls @Girls Who Excel
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