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How to Put Yourself Out There: 10 Badass Moves for Career, Networking, and Beyond.
No, girlie, it’s not just about dating—it's about everything!
Hi Girlie,
Ever feel like everyone’s out there winning, and you’re just on the sidelines waiting for your moment? It’s not that you’re not ready, but sometimes putting yourself out there can feel so overwhelming.
Whether you’re trying to make moves in your career, build your circle, have more fun, or just stop playing small, it’s time to change that. And we’re about to show you exactly how to make it happen.
10 badass ways to put yourself “out there” 😚
1/ Own Your Space 🙌🏽
Whether it’s walking into a boardroom full of executives or stepping into a party where you don’t know anyone, walk in like you belong. Stand tall, maintain eye contact, and smile. It’s not about being the loudest or most outgoing—it’s about presence. Take a minute outside the door to relax and compose yourself with a few deep breaths before entering.
Think about Rihanna. She doesn’t say much, but when she enters a room, everyone knows it. Own that same energy, girl.
2/ Say Yes to Opportunities (Even When You’re Nervous😱)
Newsflash: You’re never going to feel completely ready. For anything. But the people who succeed? They say yes anyway. Remember that job interview you thought you bombed but still nailed the role? That’s what happens when you show up, even when it’s scary.
Real-life example: Sheryl Sandberg admitted she wasn’t fully prepared for her COO role at Facebook but said yes anyway. If she waited until she felt “ready,” she would’ve missed out.
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3/ Network (Minus the ick 🥰) 🫱🏼🫲🏽
Networking doesn’t have to be awkward small talk. It’s about building authentic relationships over time. Networking now? It’s sliding into DMs with genuine synergy, compliments, hopping into group chats, or joining communities with like-minded people. Build real connections, not just contacts.
Quick exercise: try and meet/talk to at least one new person every week. Find these people on Linkedin, office events, coffee shops, seminars, etc.
4/ Stop Waiting for Permission ✋🏻
Raise your hand if you’ve ever waited for someone to tell you it’s okay to go after what you want? 🙋♀️ Whether it’s asking for a raise, starting that passion project, or making the first move in a relationship—stop waiting for the green light.
Example: You’ve been waiting for your boss to recognize your hard work? They won’t until you speak up. Go in, present your achievements, and ask for that raise. The worst they can say is no. And that’s just the beginning of another opportunity.
5/ Shoot Your Shot (Romantically or Professionally) 🎯
Closed mouths don’t get fed. Shoot your shot. Want to DM that cute person you saw on Instagram? Do it. Want to ask your CEO for a 1-on-1? Do it. The worst you can hear is “no,” but the best you can get? A life-changing yes. For example, the guy who landed his dream job at Spotify just because he DM’d the hiring manager and sent them a playlist… that could be you.
6/ Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🚫
No more people-pleasing, girl. Your time, energy, and mental health are gold. In life, work, and relationships, setting boundaries is an act of self-respect. Example: Your boss emails you at 10 PM, expecting a response? Hit them back with, “I’ll be able to review this first thing tomorrow.” Better yet, don’t respond at all in the moment and do promptly respond first thing in the morning during your business hours.
That friend who’s constantly draining your energy with drama? Politely distance yourself. People will respect you more when you respect yourself.
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7/ Wear that Outfit girl 👗
You’ve got that killer outfit sitting in your closet for a "special occasion," but guess what? Today is that day. Whether you’re going to a casual brunch or a big work meeting, wearing something that makes you feel unstoppable changes how you show up. You’re not just dressing for others—you’re dressing for how you want to feel. That power blazer? That LBD? Wear it now. No more saving things for later.
PS: Studies show that wearing well-fitted clothes and your favorite colors can increase confidence and productivity by up to 25%. Try it before your next big meeting or presentation.
8/ Speak Up (Even When Your Voice Shakes) 📣
Your ideas and opinions are valuable, so don’t hold back—especially in work meetings or collaborative projects.
Example: If you have a great idea but feel nervous about speaking up, prepare a concise pitch. Frame it like, “I’ve been thinking about XYZ, and I believe it can have a real impact because…”. The more you practice, the easier it becomes.
9/ Be Unapologetically Ambitious 🤗
Don’t ever dim your light to make others feel okay. Ambition isn’t something you need to apologize for. You’re allowed to want more in life—more success, more freedom, more fulfillment.
Example: Publicly state your goals or share what you’re working on. Whether it’s telling your friends you’re aiming for a promotion or posting about your side business on social media, making your ambition known creates accountability and opens doors to opportunities.
10/ Learn to Walk Away 🚶🏻♀️➡️
Not every job or relationship is meant to last forever, and knowing when to dip is a major power move. Like, if you’ve been at your job for a year and you’re not learning anything new or leveling up, it’s time to hit pause and rethink.
Don’t be afraid to start scrolling job boards or exploring new vibes. Same goes for those draining relationships—it’s totally okay to let go and make room for better energy to flow in.
You’re now ready to put yourself out there girlie!😉
Big Sis Advice comin’ in hot 🔥🥵
Stop shrinking, sis. You belong in every room you walk into, and it’s powerful when we self-assuredly act like it. Whether it’s speaking up, meeting new friends, landing the date, chasing that dream, or setting boundaries—own your power.
You’ve got everything it takes to make big moves, and if someone doesn’t see it, that’s their loss. Show up, shine, and enjoy what’s yours in life.
Xo,
The Girls @Girls Who Excel
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